1. Love your children - I have seen several top lists to love your wife. I very rarely see this on it. Spend time with your kids. Doing this daily should be your priority. A woman loves a man that loves his kids.

2. Take interest in her day - She wants to feel needed and important. Be genuine about you interest. Do not belittle her accomplishments. Until you jump in her shoes, you really do not know what she is going through. She will see right threw a fake intention.

3. Show her you love her - Just saying "I love you" over the phone does not count. Go out of your way to show her. A small gesture a day is fine, but if you go out of your way, it means so much more. Women, in general, worry about their looks. As they get older, you need to remind them how beautiful they are to you.

4. Help her with her weekly choirs - Not just every once in a while. ALL the time. Surprise her by doing the whole house. Make a weekend pass that says she is exempt of all work. You live there too.

5. Let her go out with her friends -As much as she wants. Friends are very important to women. There is a bond there that we as men just don't understand.

6. Make time for your wife - Have a date night. Yes you will have to watch "Chick Flicks" and snuggle. It's not that bad. This leads to sex quite often, but don't count on it. Caress her. No grabbing. Women are to smart for us. It is hard to fool them with your advances.

7. Satisfy your woman sexually - It's not all about you. Learn some things Romeo. Buy a tape. NO, not a porno, or read a book on how to pleasure a woman. And if all fails. JUST ASK HER what turns her on!!!

8. Be a better person - Make it a habit to be a life long learner. Learn how to live life. Learn how to love your wife. Marriage is very hard. You would not try to accomplish your job without learning how to. Why would you try to make your wife happy without learning how? She will respect you for this.

9. Do not let your relationship become mundane - Experience new things with your wife. The same ole same ole will kill a relationship. You don't have to spend a lot of money to do new things.

10. Remember all Birthdays and anniversaries - Don't sweat it guys. Use Outlook or even Google has a free remember program. Also, when an event or date is important to her. Make it important to you.

11. Yes I know I said 10, but there are bunch more. Your wife should be everything to you. Your main focus and goal in live is to make her happy. You accomplish this and your happiness will just fall into place.

Great book!!!